Growing up in the 80’s, there were very few options for girls who looked like me to see ourselves reflected on the shelves at our favorite toy stores. There was the occasional black Barbie doll and a Cabbage Patch doll here and there, but doll options have always been limited for young black girls. Even more than doll options, children’s books and stories featuring main characters who are multicultural have also been limited. That’s what drew me to the story behind Keisha Cane & Her Very Sweet Tooth.
Last month I did a few posts including My Wish For Cadence and When I Grow Up inspired by the African Pride DreamKids “Kids Dreaming Big” Scholarship contest that was held in February and March. I love the entire idea behind the scholarship program, encouraging kids everywhere to dream big and pursue their dreams. Well they picked 4 amazing winners – Brett Burch – 5th Grade (Washington, D.C.), Chyna Baldwin – 8th Grade (Camden, MS), LaDiamond White – 5th Grade (Ruston, LA) and Grand Prize Winner, Madison Evans – 3rd Grade ( Baton Rouge, LA).
When I first found out I was having a baby, I knew that I wanted to share so much of my life and my journey with my child. I didn’t know who this little human being would turn out to be, what he or she would look like or even what I would call them. But I knew I wanted a career that would allow me to provide for my child and bring him or her along for the ride.
To travel with me, to be involved and to see firsthand how much hard work it requires to make a living and do it meaningfully. Two weeks ago, I had the ability to turn those dreams into reality by taking baby Cadence with me on my first international business trip of 2015.
We went to the beautiful island of Jamaica (also my Dad’s hometown!) on a press trip with beauty brand Strength of Nature. They are behind brands like African Pride, DreamKids and many more.
While there, Cadence had the chance to not only walk on the sand at the beach for the first time, but she also had the chance to meet her uncles and Great-Grandmother for the first time as well.
Check out all BabyBrownSugar got into on her first passport stamp:
Her First Time Walking On Sand
Cadence had so much fun sunbathing on the beach. I didn’t have alot of time to shop before heading on our trip so I bought her a few little swimsuits, flip-flops, dresses and a nice floppy hat from Old Navy the day before we left. They really have an amazing lineup of kiddie clothes for spring/summer this season.
Cadence’s first reaction to the sand was “disgust”, in a word. Hah! She refused to put her little feet down. But eventually she was so taken with the waves, she took my hand and walked along the beach with me. It was SO cute!
We also took lots of pics with her Godmommy Jessica who was on the press trip with us. She had a blast on the beach.
At our hotel – the Royalton White Sands Resort in Montego Bay – we went for dinner at their japanese hibachi restaurant called Zen and Cadence saw her very first live hibachi cooking experience.
She even had her very own chopsticks!
The Royalton White Sands Resort really caters many services to families so all the restaurants are kid-friendly complete with highchairs and kiddie sized portions of all their meals at your request.
Her First Time in the Countryside
I used to spend weeks when I was a child coming to Jamaica and staying at my Grandma’s house in the countryside. My dad was born and raised there. It was so great getting exposure to that side of my family but as I got older, I just haven’t been able to go back as often as I wanted to. So I was so excited to come back and to bring my little baby girl to meet her extended family in Jamaica.
Cadence had so much fun! I’ve never seen her so free and excited. It’s like she knew she was on vacation.
She even managed to take a few steps on her own at her Great-Grandma’s direction. So sweet.
SO grateful for my mom (Cady’s grandma) coming on this trip with us to help me with her. Now that Cadence is toddler status, she is a handful!
While there, my uncle made us the most delicious fried fish and curry goat you’ve ever tasted. Fresh and so amazingly delicious.
I took Cadence out back to see the roosters and chickens running around on Grandma’s farm. She has chickens, goats, and a myriad of fresh fruits and veggies she grows out back.
We had so much fun exploring the countryside and spending time with family. It was truly an unforgettable experience.
Have you traveled internationally with your child yet? If so, what was it like?
In my last post about the “Kids Dreaming Big” initiative with African Pride DreamKids, I discussed My Wish For Cadence and what I’d like her to be when she grows to be a young lady in 10 years. As a mother, all that I want for my child and all that I’m dreaming of for her is of course a result of my personal experience and the dreams I had for myself when I was young.
I have a small tattoo on my right ankle of a Sankofa. It’s a West-African adinkra symbol that essentially means “learn from your past to build for your future”. That’s always been my life philosophy even before Cadence was born. So to talk about the big dreams I have for Cadence, I have to think about my own past. Thinking about my past and what I used to struggle with, alot of it had to do with how I looked and my self-worth. I wore glasses, I was always the tallest girl in the room up until Junior High, and I grew curves early – breasts and all! My form of expression as I got older and more conscious of my “differences” became my attire and my hair. Style and beauty has always been the lens through which I expressed my emotional complexities.
I always knew that when I grew up I wanted to help people in some way. At first I thought I wanted to be a doctor, but eventually I came to realize that wasn’t my real calling or my dream. I wanted to do it by telling stories, by encouraging people and by letting people know they mattered. And so that’s what I do with LoveBrownSugar and with BabyBrownSugar and all my business ventures. I try to create spaces online and offline for people to be inspired, encouraged and also enlightened!
After all is said and done, I want Cadence to dream even bigger than I did. If I reached for the clouds, I want her to reach for the stars. Every mother wants the best for their child and I’m no different. I’m really honored that I get to be with my daughter on every step of her journey.
What about you? What did you wish for yourself that you want for your child?
This post is sponsored by African Pride. Opinions expressed herein are my own and not those of the company.
If you follow my style blog LoveBrownSugar you’d know that I recently finished up a really fun trip to Arkansas in partnership with hair brand African Pride. African Pride is a brand I grew up with. I grew up getting my hair done with their products around and they’ve really built a solid foundation around heritage and family. So it only follows that they have a line of kids products (called DreamKids!) and that the same family values carry throughout to their children’s line.
DreamKids is currently running an amazing scholarship contest that promotes and encourages kids to “dream big”. The “Kids Dreaming Big” scholarship contest, opened to youth grades 3 – 5, encourages the next generation to believe in the beauty of their dreams and provides a national platform for children to pursue them. They’ve partnered up exclusively with merchandiser fred’s Super Dollar to offer this contest.
In partnership with them, they’ve asked me to highlight my wish for my baby girl Cadence, and the life I want her to live in the future. When I really thought about it, I started to think of my personal journey. I started my style blog LoveBrownSugar.com because I wanted to provide women who looked like me with a platform for them to see themselves and feel empowered and beautiful. As a mother, I want to provide that same reflection for my daughter as well. I want her to feel empowered, I want her to feel beautiful and most of all I want her to love herself as much as we love her. So here’s my open letter to her:
My wish for you, in 10 years, is that you would be an example to all of your friends and classmates of an upstanding young woman who loves herself, loves her community and is happing being herself. My wish is that you dream BIG and always pursue what you love. And that you inspire other people to pursue their dreams as well.
This is my wish for my baby girl. What’s your wish for your kid(s)? Leave me a comment below and let me know!
Kids Dreaming Big Contest:
Scholarship entry for the Kids Dreaming Big contest is February 2- March 15, 2015 with $3000.00 worth of scholarships offered. Click here to enter: http://woobox.com/hxfqqn. 5 children will have a chance to win $500 scholarships and there’s also one Grand Prize of a $500 scholarship and an all expense paid trip for two to meet Real Housewives of Atlanta star Cynthia Bailey. Click here to check out Dream Kids: http://www.africanpridedreamkids.com.
Disclosure: This post was sponsored by African Pride Dream Kids. Though I was compensated for this post, all opinions expressed here are my own and not those of the company.
What I love about EDEN BodyWorks and what drew me to the company to care for my own curls is their commitment to healthy and natural ingredients that are good for the body. This is an especially important aspect of picking out hair products for Cadence. I always want that what I put on her hair is comprised of safe & healthy ingredients.
All of EDEN’s products have no petroleum, mineral oils or sodium sulfates. I need to know that the products are safe and effective before putting them near the little one.
I use a detangler on Cady’s hair pretty much every morning to give it moisture, to keep her curls from drying out throughout the day and also when I’m taking out or putting in twists or braids. It makes the styling session way easier. The Coco Shea Berry Leave-In Detangler works really well for that (and smells yummy!)
The first ingredients in the Berry Curly Creme are Water and Coconut Oil so that’s always a good sign. It also smells good enough to eat, like for real. Keeping these AWAY from the shelf so Cady doesn’t get any ideas during snacktime lol
Anyway, I highly recommend you give them a try! When you do, feel free to come back here and leave a comment on how they worked out for you or your little one. (Please believe I’m trying these bad boys on my hair too!
I woke up on Wednesday morning misty-eyed but filled with so much gratitude. God has blessed me with the most precious gift of life – a beautiful, sweet, smart, inquisitive, happy, talented and amazing daughter named Cadence. Wednesday, February 4th was her first birthday and I want the world to know how incredibly amazing she is. If I could make her special day a national holiday I would. Cadence is a whole year old.
I still remember when the doctors told me I was having a girl and how overjoyed I was about carrying a mini-me. I remember feeling her first kicks and feeling her dance to music for the first time. It all seems like it was just yesterday and now she’s going from infant to toddler status.
In true monthly update, fashion, here’s what Cadence has been up to now that she’s officially 12 months:
Cadence shakes her head “yes” and “no”
Wanna know if she does or doesn’t want something, or if she’s done eating? Just ask her. She now appropriately shakes her head yes and no. She also sometimes throws in an aggressive hand-waving or a flurry of angry kicks if she’s REALLY adamant. It’s quite entertaining.
Cadence hums the tune to the ABC’s and her favorite intro songs to Sprout Channel shows.
I can’t quite explain my utter joy and excitement when I first walked into the room only to hear her singing the tune of “ABC’s” aka “Twinkle, Twinkle Little Star”. I’ve been singing Cadence the ABC song literally since she was born. It never occurred to me that one day she would actually be able to sing it back to me. *cries in a corner* Anyway, she now also loves singing along to the Happy Birthday song on The Chica Show as well as singing the intros to Super Why and Zou.
Cadence dances on beat.
I mean, let’s be real, she’s been dancing on beat from the womb. But now that she’s old enough to actually dance on her own two feet, it’s readily apparent that she has rhythm (like her name implies). I really think she may have a career in music. Or at least she will grow up loving it!
Cadence knows when she’s doing something she shouldn’t be.
Gone are the days when Cadence would sit in her little chair and giggle and watch Mommy without touching anything or creating mischief. Nope, now she touches everything. But more than that, she knows when she’s NOT supposed to touch something because she peeks at me out the corner of her eye before proceeding to touch it. This girl is a trip.
- All Meghan Trainor music including “All About That Bass” and “Lips Are Sealed”
- Rice (I can’t get her to eat chicken but she will ALWAYS always eat the rice)
- Playtime with other kids (She’s a social butterfly like her mama!)
- Her snowsuit (Something to the tune of that scene in “A Christmas Story” when Ralph’s little brother Randy gets dressed up in his snow pants and such and then cries because he now has to use the bathroom. She hates it.)
- Socks (She pulls them off. Always. She gets it from me, I hate socks too.)
- Getting her hair done (She despises it with a passion. I’m praying she grows out of this phase quick. Like girl. Hair must be laid.)
Words can’t express how grateful I am to have experienced an entire year of motherhood to date. I still remember being pregnant with her and finding out I had to slow down completely to be on bedrest or she may come earlier than expected.
That was my first big lesson in sacrifice for your child. Since then Cadence has taught me so much about being selfless and loving unconditionally.
Thank you all for following her journey and mine. To another year of happiness and life lessons as a mother!
The sharp drop in temperatures and the (bootleg?) blizzard this week has everyone on the east coast trying to stay warm. But while we’re bundling up in our blanket scarves and checked coats we can’t forget about dem babies! If you haven’t found the time to focus on securing new outwear for your little one this season, have no fear. We’ve rounded up some fashionable and functional baby snow boots options that are wallet friendly and ready to protect little feet for the storms ahead.
Colored laces are a great way to add some spark to your little prince or princess’s step. Laces also have the added benefit of being more difficult to take off for the toddler who just can’t wait to set their tiny toes free.
For the child who isn’t quite ready to take on the outdoors cozy booties are a must have. Just like socks in the winter, slip-on booties are a great way to keep baby’s feet constantly covered yet still comfortable.
Cady loves styling in her fuzzy fur booties!
For those who are already running about boots that are cushioned at the top and hard at the bottom are a great fit. The cushion allows kids to pull on the boot without fuss while the hard bottoms keep their socks safe from snow and sleet. Bright colors like hot pink and neon green can be used to match a lunchbox or backpack.
When you are pregnant, especially into your second and third trimesters, the last thing you may want to worry about is your hair. Hype Hair Magazine spoke with celebrity hairstylist Keisha George about her tips for pregnant women on hair growth and three easy hairstyles.
Here is what Keisha had to say:
1. Vitamin A: This vitamin is essential for assisting in the growth of the hair follicle and the maintaining of healthy hair. It also has regulated retinoic acid which is required for growth and development. Sweet potato, carrots, and kale are excellent sources of vitamin A that you can add to your diet.
2. Vitamin B Complex: This combination of the B vitamins is an excellent source of strength and shine for the hair. B6 and B12 increases the structure and shine of the hair follicle. Vitamin B- complex is found in cauliflower, beef liver, and avocados. Vitamin B-12 can be found in foods such as meat and dairy.
Continuing with their transparency about the ingredients in their food with the “Our Food. Your Questions” campaign, McDonald’s is now taking questions about their egg products. Whether you’re a fan of their McGriddle sandwiches or their breakfast platters with scrambled eggs, I’m sure you want to know what exactly is in there. Wondering if their eggs are real? Take a peek at this video explanation:
McDonald’s wants to hear from you! Tweet @McDonalds & @BabyBrownSugar_ on Twitter with any questions you have about what’s in their food. Nothing is off limits!
To learn more about what’s in Mickey D’s food, check out their YouTube playlist which is chock full of information from the “Our Food. Your Questions” campaign. This post is sponsored by McDonald’s. Opinions expressed herein are my own and not those of the company